Self Love is the Best Self Discipline
Finding Authentic Guidance Within - a retreat with Phil Rogacki
Thursday 17th September 2026 to Sunday 20th September 2026
Space is available on this event!

• Why do we do things that aren’t good for us?
• Why does our will fail us when we want to make positive changes?
• Why do we behave in ways that aren't who we are, deep down?
• If we listen to our authentic self, where the divine emerges within, we are guided unerringly.
• That voice is our self love, that is Love, and the guidance it gives stops being discipline in the traditional sense because it is truthful and kind, making it unavoidable.
• Join us in exploring the space where self love and self discipline merge in the flame of divinity for living an authentic life.
In this workshop we will bring together contemplative practices, light reading, and interaction for an embodied experience where we align our hearts and minds to access the wisdom there. We are also imperfect, perhaps messy beings, and we will embrace that. Please bring your sense of wonder, a sense of humour, and curiosity for seeing in new ways!
The contemplative practices we will use include meditation, journaling, walking, noticing, and more.
You can expect to:
• Discover new ways for more effective self love.
• Be more in touch with your authentic, divine self, i.e., the inner voice of truth.
• See how healthy self discipline naturally grows from clear and kind self love.
• Use emerging awareness and progress for positive feedback and further growth.
• Understand and feel how divine connection brings clarity and discernment, so that self love merges with self discipline.
When we talk about the divine, it will be from an inclusive stance that could be Spirit, Source, the Universe, God, Higher Power, Buddha, Nature, or whatever respectful and holy name you choose.
About Phil Rogacki
He writes: "I have been on a spiritual path my entire adult life. Along with a deep immersion in contemplative Christianity, I have studied Buddhism and Shamanism, and blend many eclectic sources into my teaching. My training and experience have shown me that a path of love and compassion is the most powerful and revolutionary effort we can make, because it transforms individuals and society at a foundational level. If we feel a part of the interconnected web of life, we naturally act in concert with each other and the earth.
"I am offering this workshop because I believe it will resonate with people who are aware of all that is going on globally and are feeling a resulting uneasiness that may throw us off. We always need grounded compassion and love, and especially now. By deepening into divinely inspired self love, a natural self discipline emerges to keep us rooted in spirit, and that flows out into the continuum around us."
Phil was in the first cohort of Richard Rohr's Center for Action and Contemplation's Living School (2013-2015). He managed online learning at the CAC for five years and managed online learning for the World Community for Christian Meditation for two years. He has studied with Cynthia Bourgeault since 2008. He has been a facilitator with Gender Equity and Reconciliation International for six years and did men's work with Illuman for five years. He studied Buddhism with the San Francisco Zen Center and at Spirit Rock Meditation Center. He studied Shamanism with The Four Winds and the Last Mask Center.
Fee Types
You are genuinely welcome to choose whichever rate suits you
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| Standard | £349 | what most people pay so as to cover our costs |
| Basic | £297 | if you're struggling financially, a student or trainee |
| Benefactor | £402 | for better off people who 'pay it forward' for others |
| Deposit | £ 30 |
Arrival + Departure Times
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| Arrive between | 4.00 - 6.00 pm |
| Depart after | 2.30 pm |
Coast Road
Burton Bradstock
Dorset
DT6 4RN